So I’m sure most of you have read my post from last night, and yes, it contained a lot of “fucks” “assholes” and “motherfuckers” I was angry and still am, but maybe I can explain myself a little bit more clearly for those of you who think I am discriminating against anyone. I had been told that me doing g/g is a complete double standard, so let me explain the difference. When you’re working with a girl, there is some kissing, some pussy licking, some finger banging, and some toy play. When gay talent and escorts use condoms it’s basically the same thing, but when ANYONE not just gay people are running around outside of the business, spreading their legs without protection they are threatening everyone’s health. I do believe that EVERYONE has the right to do what they want in their free time, but if you’re out there having unprotected sex with people outside of the business, and who are not tested, then don’t risk everyone else’s health by doing porn. Get tested, have unprotected sex with people who are tested, use condoms with people who are not tested. It’s pretty easy.
For those of you who think I’m a dick for blasting “Cameron Reed” so publicly I apologize, but when you’re a responsible sex worker, you do not risk the lives of other people by doing porn by day, and having sex without a condom by night with strangers. While I’m not God, and cannot force people to agree with my way of thinking I do think that the point I’m making is pretty reasonable and just common courtesy. I do think that some of you are bending my words, and hearing what you want to hear. Things that you read are very one dimensional and can be misconstrued very easily. I hope this post help clear up the misunderstanding.
No need to apologize Reed shouldn’t not be doing gay movies and or escorting and lying about it, you only lie if you have a reason lie.
I agree with you 100% going around having sex with guys then switching back to straight sex is very dangerous.
He could have tested clean one day then the next day get HIV from a male client, then the day after that shoot a straight scene giving the girls HIV, then that girl may do another movie the next day and she spreads it to a top male performer which spreads it to even more girls.
The whole thing equals disaster.
It’s a very risky business and you can’t trust anyone.
nothing wrong with what you said, I completely agree with you! why can’t people just use protection and be safe! Emily doesn’t want to get AIDS, if that makes her a horrible person then include me in that category too! I applaud you for being safe, responsible, and speaking your mind about the subject!
Same here I totally agree you should be able to speak your mind. It sucks that people will risk others lives in order to save their business and it sucks that aim doesn’t tell us who patien 0 is from day 1. I personally know guys that fucked the quarantined girls off camera and aren’t quarantined but how do they know if someone doesn’t post the info. Good for you for speaking your mind. Gay male escorting ad saying your are “AIM Tested” I am no expert on this sort of thing but it seems like advertising bareback friendly if you ask me.
How do you know he got HIV escorting bareback? You don’t, you’re speculating you ignorant bitch. He was an escort but his profile said “ALWAYS SAFE” so where’d you even get that from? For all you know he got it shooting heroine with an infected person or from his girlfriend who got it cheating on him. You’re a sex worker and one of the liabilities of your job is the potential for catching STDS INCLUDING HIV. Point blank. If you don’t want to worry about getting HIV on the job pursue a career that doesn’t involve dicks penetrating your orifices. You can’t blame ANYONE for your consenting sexual behavior. Grow up.
How dare you come onto my blog and start attacking me you stupid fool. Just because I made a post about practicing safe sex while
escorting, does NOT mean I am picking on gay men, or your fucking brother, who by the way has nothing to do with this, so you can
stop trying to defend people when you don’t even know the situation. I have a girlfriend who I recently found out is escorting for an extra
couple hundred bucks here and there, and I also worked with “Derek” so I have every right in the world to feel a little freaked out and angry.
As a person who practices extremely safe sex off camera I have every right. I also hope you know, the website you so diligently researched
is not my source of information, so you can take that email and shove it straight up your ass. I can’t believe how many assumptions you are
making and what a fucking dick face you are. I have gay friends and family who I love with all my heart, so this isn’t about like “Oh lets go pick
on the gays” Maybe you need to get to know the whole story before cramming your bullshit down my throat you stupid asshole.
Your source is the same source everyone else in our industry is using that points out that he claims to be “AIM TESTED” but purposely cuts out the rest of his ad which states “ALWAYS SAFE SEX” to sensationalize the idea that he was barebacking. And you’re helping to further demonize him and perpetuate that lie when you have no idea how he got infected. Would you like someone to do that to you? No. You seem like an smart girl but it’s idiotic to blame gay sex pollination for an HIV outbreak in porn when A) You don’t know if that’s even true and B) HIV outbreaks in porn will continue to happen as long as studios don’t require condoms and there’s a disease incubation/window period. Don’t expect to get much sympathy from the masses for your plight as a sex worker who has unprotected sex for money especially when you don’t have any for two performers who MIGHT have a disease they have to live with that you were lucky enough not to get.
Two things… I never asked for sympathy from ANYONE as far as I can recall, and AGAIN my source is not from the internet like everyone elses.
His FULL unphotoshopped escort ad
http://webcache.googleusercontent.com/search?q=cache:P2bI6B5q2-UJ:www.rentboy.com/listing.aspx%3Flid%3D243931%26scid%3D44711982%26sp%3D1%26pos%3D2+%22derek+chambers%22+rentboy.com&cd=1&hl=en&ct=clnk&gl=us
Your missing the point Paulie, it doesn’t matter where he got it, he is lying about being gay, his partner could have gave it to him. If you are bi just come out and admit it to the people you are performing with.
I know if I was a porn producer I would not hire a gay/bi male to have sex with girls, it’s just to dangerous.
Well, Elton, you’re saying two different things really. From reports this alleged patient zero does gay porn but does not identify as gay and has a girlfriend. Also his agents listed him as being available for gay AND straight porn so what more did the producers need if they did want to discriminate against him for that? The problem is that people continue to think HIV is a gay disease when it’s a disease that is and has always been about specific unprotected acts. A straight guy can get HIV from another straight guy if they have unprotected anal sex (and two straight guys can anatomically have sex just like he could anatomically have sex with a dog if he were forced or paid a ridiculous sum of money to). And good luck with this whole “not hiring gay/bi guys to do straight porn” thing. We’re talking about porn here. Discriminating against people based upon objectionable things in their personal lives will end production forever. In that case you should probably hire injection drug users. Good luck getting them to admit that on their model bios. AIM testing is not 100% fool proof and that’s just the reality. There were two other HIV cases earlier this year but the actors involved where straight men and women who only did straight porn (would you suggest not letting straight people do straight porn as well?) Interesting but not surprising that those cases didn’t cause the witch hunt that this one did.
***should refuse to hire injection drugs users I meant to say.
Where is the witch hunt?
You also have to admit AIDS is higher in the Gay Community than the straight Community. That is just a fact and when you have a performer who is gay/bi and is not upfront about it to the girls he is with or worse lies that is not cool.
Girls should have a choice to work with a bi male performer.
Take a performer like Christian who has no condom sex with Shemales a the time and also does straight porn, well I think the girls who have sex with him should know if he is having sex with guys.
Now yes the guy could be straight and a needle user but once you get naked you can plainly tell if the guy uses needles or not.
It’s a very risky business and nothing is full proof but what makes it worse is people who are not 100% upfront.